What Is a Registered Escort and How Are They a Benefit to the Hobby?
Registered escorts are women and men who have filed as an escort with their local municipal entity. In order to do so the escort must have valid federal, state, and local business licenses. The escort often will have to be background checked by local law enforcement agency as well.
Legalized Prostitution vs Registered Escort
Prostitution is legal in some counties of Nevada. Prostitution is a sexual act in exchange for payment. Escorts, however, are exchanging their company, ie companionship, for a fee. The exchange in no way guarantees any sexual acts will transpire. The client pays for a companion, what the companion does with the time she has been paid to supply is up to her.
How to become registered.
First the escort must look up the local municipal code. Many large and small cities offer the option of filing as a “Registered Escort” or similar terms. If this is indeed an option the escort must then take the proper steps to obtain the license. My business Courtesan Consulting offers a service that helps escorts navigate their local red tape. It is not always user friendly, nor easy to understand. Often the costs of becoming registered are upwards of $500 or more.
What are the benefits to the provider?
With the time and costs involved there must be benefits to registering, right? Well the most important benefit is that the escort will no longer be operating business on the back market. This takes away the constant stress of operating a business illegally. The “what if I get caught” factor has been eliminated. The escort now has a marketable asset, Legality!
What are the benefits to the hobbyist?
As stated above, the hobbyist will know, with a registered escort, that he is not entering into a law enforcement trap. This is a huge relief to hobbyists, as it is one of their biggest fears. Another benefit is that the hobbyist knows the escort has passed a local background check and is not a felon! So there are 2 huge worries eliminated. The worry of being arrested and the worry of being robbed by a drug addicted criminal.
What are the drawbacks?
Well, the largest drawback to the provider is the upfront cost and ongoing costs of maintaining a legally operating business. They are creating a paper trail with that may come back to haunt them if they have aspiration of holding public office. Each escort must weigh the pros and cons and decide which is more important. Operating a legal business or staying off of a paper trail.
In defense of sober sex as a whole, but specifically sober escorting and hobbying.
Warning: contains adult language and subjects.
Let me ask you a question. Do you like to have a few drinks or smoke a little weed before having sex with someone? Please be honest with yourself. Without a doubt, some substances definitely enhance a sexual experience. Some really mind blowing sex can happen when 2 people or more are all on the same altered or enhanced wavelength. It’s fun to get loose, let those inhibitions slide away and try some wild stuff you may not have tried stone cold sober. Am I right?
Let me ask you another question. Do you need to be intoxicated in order to have sex? Do you enjoy being intimate with someone who needs to be lit up to have sex with you.
Hard questions to ponder. Yet having a strong sense of where you stand on this issue will ensure that you experience the most comfortable companionship available.
Listen, I am a courtesan, not a prude. Sometimes my clients will enjoy their adult substances. If it makes them feel more comfortable and at ease, I get it. But there is a line that gets crossed and once over the line, well, things don’t work as well as they might have earlier in the evening.
Do you catch my drift?
As a companion of quality I understand that my clients don’t need to get f***** up to be with me.
But let’s flip the scenario so that my point comes clear.
As a client, how would you feel if your companion needed to get f***** up to be with you?
Let that sink in.
Does it make you cringe?
If an escort needs to get intoxicated so that she can tolerate her clients, maybe she needs a new job.
I have heard escorts tell me that they have to have a few drinks so that they can be nice to their clients.
Wow. you can’t be nice without a mind altering substance?
Or wait here is an even better one.
The escort who likes to use drugs so that she can “zone out” while seeing her client.
What The Fuck
Does that give you the warm and fuzzies? Does that make you feel like spending your hard earned cash? If I were a hobbyist I would run far, far away from any escort who advertises her substance use as a marketable asset. I would not want to spend time with someone who has to be fucked up to “deal” with me.
Sadly that seems to be a prevalent ideology among escorts.
My advice, as your Courtesan Consultant, is to look for escorts who advertise their distaste for substances. My own ads all say that “My body is a Temple. Intoxication is discouraged. I will not spend time with a client who encourages drug or alcohol use.” Strong language for a strong message.
While we are on the topic, let’s talk briefly about safety. Any ladies out there who may be considering escorting as a career really need to consider if they want to include substance use in their sessions. I don’t know about other people, but I do know that my decision making and awareness is dulled by drugs and alcohol. Potentially placing me in a very dangerous situation. The same does for clients. Do you, as a client, feel safe in the company of a person who is obviously intoxicated? Or do you feel on edge, worried that she might have a violent mood swing or become aggressive?
As your Courtesan Consultant I am asking you to ask yourself these questions when considering your options for a companion. Let’s make our hobby a safer one by choosing to eliminate substance abuse as a component altogether.
I’d love to discuss this topic privately with anyone. Please feel free to email me or text me your questions.
Be safe my friends,
My friends, you may have noticed that the internet just became a few shades more prude. With the passing of FOSTA and SESTA, and the amending of Section 230, we all get to enjoy a safer internet experience. Thank you for saving us from ourselves, oh wise ones.
OK… but let’s get back to reality. The internet is a great place to find “dates” as well as dates. No more though. Without these platforms many of us are going to notice a more stagnant version of our favorite extracurricular activities.
If you haven’t heard yet, Section 230 means platforms would be responsible for third-party content related to sex trafficking or conduct that “promotes or facilitates prostitution.”
This includes cam sites, sugar daddy sites, and legitimate dating sites. It also includes sites used by sex workers and their patrons to screen clients and providers, ensuring the safety of both parties. At the bottom of this article is a list of sites taken down or censored; some you may be surprised to see.
Is this an attack on the sex work industry? Is this an attack on our first amendment rights? It’s hard to say. Considering net neutrality is a pretty recent development, maybe we all just got used to too much freedom.
Section 230 was born from a couple of 1990s court cases that decided whether tech companies at the very beginning of the internet were responsible for what people were sharing on the platforms they had created. Well as of April 11th, they are.
So this leaves a whole lot of men and women in a state of fear, confusion, and ...frustration.
Luckily I am here to help you with any question regarding navigating this muck. Shoot me an email and I will be happy to consult you. No question is too “crazy” no situation too “messed up”. Trust me, I am at your service always. ~Olivia
In a world of ambiguity and confusion, the simple Wink might is one thing that unites us all.
There's really no other way to put this: Winks are badass! A private signal from one person to another; soundless yet so filled with meaning and nuance. A secret wink from a girl can set a man's imagination on fire. A man's quiet wink can fill a woman's tummy with butterflies. “A wink and a smile” tells the world that you're centered, poised, calm and ready for anything.
So today I want to talk about why we all find people who wink at us to be just a little more attractive than they were a second ago.
It all boils down to that “unspoken message” that a wink implies. A big chunk of what we call “attraction” is about being able to interpret other people’s emotions. A study in the journal PNAS found that when participants were asked to identify emotions from images, then rank how attracted they felt towards the people in the photographs, those who felt confident in identifying the other person’s emotions were more attracted to them.
Our brains actually have a mini celebration when we feel as if can understand someone else’s behavior. It's called a reward circuit. Or, as the fancy people from Princeton like to explain it: “Using multivoxel pattern analysis (MVPA), we found that neural activity in the reward system of the observer’s brain varied as a function of how well the target’s affective behavior matched the observer’s neural representation of the underlying affective state: The greater the match, the larger the brain’s intrinsic reward signal.”
So my advice to you, if you want better results from your personal and professional encounters, is to include a Conspiratorial Wink in the conversations you have. Give the other person just one more excuse to like you.